It’s that time of year! Time to think of good deeds and other ways to make the world a better, kinder place. While of course it’s nice to carry kindness with us the whole year through, I think the holidays are a great time to kick off some new ways we can do that – both at home and in the world. As individuals and as a family too. And I think we’d all agree, that this year it’s feeling more important than ever.
I created this project for a local library’s family craft night which I’ll be doing this evening at Westbank Library here in Austin. But it’s simple to create your own Family Good Deed Box at home. The materials are simple and the effect will hopefully be profound.
- 2 small vessels of any variety: a box, can or jar of some type. Any size will work as long as you can insert slips of paper
- Decorations for your vessel such as colored paper, ribbon, stick on jewels, stickers, rubber stamps or just good old fashioned colored pencils or markers
Decorate your vessels as you like. In one you’ll put the slips of blank paper and a pencil or two. The other will fill up as you go along.
Read through the list of ideas for good deeds below. Add some ideas of your own too. Think of things you can do as a family and others that you can do on your own. Some you can do every day and others just once in a while. Try to do at least one each day!
As you complete a good deed, write it out on a strip of paper and slip it into the box. Sometimes doing secret good deeds is fun and you can write those out too to surprise your family when you open your box.
When you gather for your holiday celebration, whatever that celebration may be, open the box and read aloud all the good you created in the world this season. Save your box from year to year as a reminder of the pure goodness you can create as a family.
- Clean up litter in a park or on your street
- Bring coloring books and pencils to your local fire station
- Decorate your sidewalk with happy chalk notes for passersby
- Make handmade bookmarks and stick them in books at the library
- Help your sibling with a chore
- Write a thank you note for your mail carrier
- Let someone cut in front of you in line
- Bring sidewalk chalk to the park and leave it for kids to use
- Bring drawing supplies to a family clinic and leave them in the waiting room
- Donate children’s books to a family clinic or children’s hospital
- Write a letter to your grandparents
- Mail a handmade card to someone you know who might be lonely
- Do chores around the house without being asked
- Read a book to a younger sibling or a little kid on your street
- Leave a love note on your parent’s pillows
- Leave a treat on your sibling’s pillow
- Smile at people you pass on the sidewalk
- Say hello wherever you go
- Put some toys on the curb with a sign that says FREE!
- Ask the checkout person at the store how they’re doing today
- Hold the door open for a stranger and say hello
- Clean your room without being asked
- Make your sibling’s bed
- Leave a quarter in a gumball machine
- Leave bubbles in the park or give them out to neighbors
- Drive around and hand out socks to homeless people
- Give a back or foot massage to your parents
- Pretend for one night that you are your parent’s servant
- Write a thank-you note for your teacher
- Volunteer to help with a household chore that isn’t usually yours to do
- Sit in your front yard and say hello to passersby. Make a sign that says hello!
- Apologize to someone you’ve hurt
- Offer compliments to people you see during the day
- Tell each person in your family why you appreciate them
- Bake cookies and take them to a neighbor
Let me know what your family dreams up! And don’t forget to record your own experience in your copy of Look At Us Now!